Parents Outraged as Meta Uses Photos of Schoolgirls in Ads Targeting Man
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Parents are outraged after Meta used photos of their schoolgirls in targeted ads without their knowledge or consent, sparking a heated discussion about data privacy and the company's moral decency.
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>The children’s images were used by Meta after their parents had posted them on Instagram to mark their return to school. The parents were unaware that Meta’s settings permitted it to do this. One mother said her account was set to private, but the posts were automatically cross-posting to Threads where they were visible. Another said she posted the picture to a public Instagram account. The posts of their children were highlighted to the stranger as “suggested threads”.
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>With 267 followers, her Instagram account usually had modest reach but the post of her child attracted nearly 7,000 views, 90% from non-followers, half of whom were aged over 44 and 90% of whom were men.
(Obviously this is such a bad idea.)
If you’re prone to say “you should have known better” about people who use Meta’s products, remember this next time. Remember that most people are not geeks like us, they don’t know that Zuckerberg called them “dumb fucks” for trusting him and every day acts accordingly. Inform them, don’t judge.
After all the public quotes from Zuckerberg and all the things the company did, I'm not willing to entertain benefit of the doubt anymore for this kind of stuff.
Pictures were disproportionately popular with a demographic. Algorithm decided to use them to promote to a member of that demographic.
You may or may not think that's OK, but where's the doubt about what actually happened?
why would one post these in the first place?
Now, given that that uniform is fetish wear on porn sites, you could argue that maybe the schools should stop requiring it. It's not even the biggest among the many reasons you should be making that argument, actually. But the reason for posting the pictures is pretty obvious.
With or without ads, there's gonna be a certain amount of "unwanted attention", if it's publicly available
With as convoluted as Meta's privacy pages are and how scattered all the settings are, this would be a super easy mistake to make. I could definitely believe that that mother may not have even known what Threads is, much less that her photos were being automatically cross-posted.
Not uncommon at all. I'd also say her parents are prolly millennials, the supposedly "tech fixer" generation. Next, if their (young women) IG account is a business account they know their metics/audience... You can type in literally any name and an attractive women is going to be the first result on search. Go see who follows their public profile and it'll bear out the quoted metrics above. Finally, this is almost all IG is